Dear Indy,

There’s this boy in one of my classes that I really like and there is definitely mutual attraction. The only problem is that I never see him outside of class. What do I do?

–Tempted to Touch

Dear Tempted,

That’s a toughie. First, I’d say friend him on Facebook. It’s an easy and fast way to say “I know you” and it’ll give you a more non-confrontational way to approach him. Next, I’d message him or go up to him in class and ask him what’s up or what he’s doing this coming weekend. It’s not as weird as you think–if someone you knew asked you the same thing, you’d probably respond and not think twice about it. When he responds with his plans, consider what he’s doing. If he’s going to a large-ish party, feel free to stop by! If it’s something a little more private, you’ve at least started to make conversation, which is super important! After the weekend passes, you have the ability now to totally ask about how it was and make EVEN MORE CONVERSATION! As avenues are opened, you’ll both get to know each other a lot better. So the best advice I can give you is to not be afraid and try to start talking to him as soon as possible! Good luck.

Dear Indy,

There’s a guy that always stares at me when I go to Leo’s. He’s really cute, and we have these really intense staring sessions sometimes. Should I try and talk to him?

-Kinda Awk

Hey, Awk–

The problem with situations like this is that you don’t know how the other person feels since you guys don’t really know each other. The next time you see him, though, smile! If he smiles back, then the next time you can maybe say hi. THEN, the next time you see him you might even be able to stop and talk to him! Until then, however, I would lay low. I only say this because there are so many guys out there who will MAKE A MOVE. This guy either seems too shy to or too much of a wimp to make a move at all, so if he doesn’t, then find someone else! If he’s truly interested then he’ll try to get involved. I hope everything works out!